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3 ways of creating Breakthroughs

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Do you need a breakthrough right now? I am looking for breakthroughs every now and then. I keep asking myself “now what?” “what else is possible?” “how else can I understand xyz?” So, when I desperately want a breakthrough where do I begin? Right where I am!! How to warm up for a breakthrough? How to get into a state that will attract breakthroughs? I start breathing differently. I sit in a different way. I walk in a different way. I just do the simplest things in a different way. Continue doing as long as I feel like. Pause then repeat again. This is how I prepare myself to become aware of the randomness of life. Life is both predictable and unpredictable. So, I keep discovering how to stay in a relaxed-alert mode. In technical terms this process is called Routine Disruption. Learn More

Art of Ignoring

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Have you been told “learn to pay attention?” Or “learn to Focus?” “you are not listening!” “where is your mind?” I have been told all of that. Many times, over and over. I used to feel bad. Then one day I eventually realised may be there is a reason why I suddenly lose attention. May be, I don’t want to listen to something that is meaningless to me (at any point in my life). So, I choose to become aware and started consciously ignoring anything that wasn’t serving any purpose. And believe me it wasn’t easy. Ignoring is not as easy as you might think if you want to consciously do it. Ignoring is as important as engaging. It requires us to turn off our senses receiving information about anything we don’t want to receive. Learn More

3 ways to be Consistent

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Consistency [behavior]: a repetitive pattern which is not repeated occasionally, rarely or by mistake but by: Compulsion is the fuel: in simple terms you need to be mad about something. Coaching: Learn how to improve what you are doing and do it better Expiry Date: all bad things come to an end and so does all good things. One day when you will be satisfied you will gradually start losing your consistency and it will change into something else. So, nothing is permanent. 3 ways to be consistent 

3 Ways to Handle Tough Situations and Stay Calm

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Don’t Create Cages, Create Freedom: The nature of things, people and situations is never constant, they are continually evolving and so should you. If you stick with one single style, method or way to handle anything, you are trapping yourself in a cage. Before your style becomes obsolete let’s develop multiple methods of approaching situations in life. Learn More

3 Ways to Become Bold

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To Be bold you don’t need a reason or logic. Being bold has nothing to do with winning or losing. Being bold is who you are because it just feels awesome! So be bold without begging for an excuse, reason or logic. Whether you win or not is not important. All success and failures are temporary but self-love is forever. 3 ways to become bold

3 Tips for a Successful Interview

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Don’t focus on winning, focus on responding to the pressure being thrown at you: The interviewer has the power to scare you, make you feel bad and make you realize how undeserving you are. The interviewer notices how you answer the questions more than what you answer. Your voice, your hand movements, your eye movements. All these accounts for your authenticity in claiming all the strong claims you have made about yourself in your cv. So, practice with me in developing multiple ways to handle pressure and stress. With Neuro-Linguistic Programming Let’s explore multiple ways of handling challenges. Read more

How to Be Extraordinary

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Brush Up what is Natural to You: Your strengths come naturally to you without prior knowledge. Focus on them. Discover different ways of identifying your strengths. Then identify a mentor, a coach or a guide who may help you nurture those strengths. Know more